It’s been awhile since I introduced this sporadic series (I told you it would be sporadic). But in that post, I told a story about a woman coming up to me after a worship service a few years ago, and asking, “Could you please show me in the Bible where it says, ‘God only helps those who help themselves’? I have a lazy family member who needs to hear that, and he’ll listen if it’s from the Bible.’” I had to summon up all the pastoral energy I could muster to restrain some of the feelings going on inside of me. These feelings were based on 2 facts:
- This woman clearly wanted to use the Bible to make her own point. Now, my frustration about this was quickly turned back onto myself, since I have done very much the same thing at times. But that does not excuse such an approach to the Scriptures. The Scriptures are meant to “teach, rebuke, correct, and train in righteousness,” not be used to tell us what our “itching ears” want to hear. But the fact that is more relevant for this blog…
- This common proverb ISN’T IN THE BIBLE!
So where does this phrase come from and what does the Bible really say? Glad you asked…
Apparently, this phrase originated as the moral in Aesop’s fable, “Hercules and the Waggoner” (though it refers to gods, not God). And it was probably popularized in our culture when it ended up in Ben Franklin’s “Poor Richard’s Almanack” (see 1736).
The point of the phrase, I think, is meant to counter laziness cloaked in piety. For instance, I shouldn’t just sit in my house praying for God to drop a wad of cash into my lap so I can pay my bills instead of training and applying for a job. In that case, the point of this little nugget is somewhat biblical. For instance, there are a number of biblical proverbs about the importance of discipline and work and the dangers of laziness (note: biblical proverbs are general facts about life in God’s world, not infallible promises from God). Likewise, Paul has little patience for those who simply consume the services of the church community without making any effort to contribute (note: this is about those who are unwilling to work, not those who are unable or cannot find work). Just looking around us, we see that passivity and unwillingness to get our hands dirty is probably not going to lead to a fulfilling and prosperous life. And the Bible affirms that laziness and idleness are neither characteristics of God nor characteristics that God desires for his people.
But let’s get back to the quote: “God helps those who help themselves.” I get asked whether this is in the Bible so often that I have come up with a stock response: “The God of the Bible is a God who helps those who cannot help themselves.” And it’s not just those who are unable, but even those who are initially unwilling. This is the radical, controversial, and sometimes offensive Gospel of God’s grace. Let me point to a few passages that I believe emphasize this point (some of these are about God, some are about how God calls his people to imitate him):
Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked (Psalm 82:3-4).
The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the LORD’s favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and provide for those who grieve in Zion– to bestow on them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of gladness instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called oaks of righteousness, a planting of the LORD for the display of his splendor (Isaiah 61:1-3, cf. Luke 4:14-19).
Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? (Matthew 5:44-47)
You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:6-8).
Some of you might say, “What about the Law? Didn’t God require the Israelites to obey the Law if he was going to bless them?” And to that, I would say, “OK, great. You want to get past the ‘proof texts’ and get into the greater Story.” We must not take the Law out of its context in the Story, nor should we take God’s Covenant blessings and promises outside the context of the Covenant. Remember that the Israelites received the Law (or, Instruction) AFTER God had delivered them out of slavery in Egypt. And as you read the Law, that gracious initiative is always foundational for why the Israelites would WANT to trust and obey their God, why they would WANT to form a community around God’s instruction and wisdom.
Beyond that, I would suggest that the whole biblical Story is that of God’s gracious and undeserved world-saving, community-forming, creation-restoring activity. To illustrate my point, look at how God treats Israel when they disobey and brazenly break the Covenant. If “God only helps those who helps themselves,” Israel would have been out. The pattern of Israel’s relationship with God is Deliverance-Sin-Consequence/Discipline-Repentance-Deliverance. It is the pattern of a God who sticks with his people even when they fail to help themselves.
And the Story of Jesus: it is simply the Story of grace. Born to lowly shepherds and pagans, eating with prostitutes and swindlers, forgiving his executioners, and dying for the worst of sinners.
The first posture of the disciple is not the posture solving, fixing, doing–of helping oneself. It is the posture of prayer: asking, seeking, knocking. When we try to help ourselves first, we are likely to create more problems than we solve. When we turn to God first, we are able to bathe in his grace, freed to live in his wisdom and empowered to join the Spirit in helping others.
So remember, “God helps those who CANNOT help themselves”…and he calls us to do the same.










